A little cheer up blog for the Singleton's out there.
Dear Singleton's:
Don't worry you've probably just never meet Mr. Right because your still weeding out Mr. Wrong.
If you'd have said yes to Mr. Not Right you'd probably be miserable, divorced and not be in position to meet Mr. Amazing. Feel better? Starting to cheer up? Good. That's my singleton's! Dreaming of the big day and Prince Charming getting down on one knee and proposing is a beautiful thing and everyone deserves this dream coming true. Visualize, see it , feel it, believe it.
So there are a lot of people who are amazing, kind, nice and great relationship material but they haven't been near their soul-mate due to some soul searching and working on self. If you are alone you've probably been hurt and closed yourself off to meeting the someone due to fear of being hurt or just not wanting to commit yet. Your ultimate man is someone dashing, handsome, smart, intelligent, sweet, respectful and single! He is out there and it is a matter of time for him to see your sparkle, intelligence, sweetness, and amazing qualities.
You've probably met people but they've been too casual and without the connection. The connection is key because if there isn't a spark and a friendship relationship base of mutual respect it will be short lived.
How does one find the right connection? Work, school, club, church, class, grocery store, community event, sports activity, group, friends, etc. You always here I met at school, work or through friends dinner party. So why didn't this happen for you? Not the right time or place? Keep a chin up as we know our time will come and all good things happen to those who wait and wait and wait.... Don't give up and try hide yourself under the covers!
Books are great, stories of romance are great but do get out of the house. Go. Explore. Try new groups and classes. Cooking class, par-sailing class, yoga, hiking, meet up groups, threaten groups, wine tasting clubs, biking tours, museums groups, pottery classes, art classes, book clubs, dinner parties. But whatever you do don't hide. Venture out and be seen. You are pretty awesome. Your loyal, bright, funny, cute, in shape and wonderful. Who wouldn't love you?
Likes do attract likes. People with similar interests or hobbies enjoy each other. So go find yours. Be open and you just might meet your Prince Charming whose not in the page but a real live human being.
Let me know if you've found Mr. Right and if your waiting you've got your singleton club to write to and
keep you motivated until a proposal.
sincerely your singleton President,
Singleton Club
The Single Girl's Hanbook
